Please TILB readers, help me. Things happen and you think you can handle them on your own but it's come to a point I think I need your thoughts please. Lagos looks big but at the end of the day, it's still a small world afterall. I have little children to protect.
I recently found out my husband was cheating on me with this young lady who is also based in this Lagos. My husband is a businessman and always travels on business trips. So, sometimes, under the guise that he is travelling for business, it never occured to me my hubby was actually meeting and spending days with this lady.
I always had my suspicions that my husband was cheating on me but since I had no concrete evidence, what could I do? I just told myself I had to be strong for myself and my kids. No man ever died and his wife was buried with him or vice versa.
Eventually, I got to catch him redhanded one day with this woman. My husband and I have been through a whole lot. 7 years of marriage, right from the scratch is no beans. I just broke down and wept bitterly. My husband was ashamed, he was very sorry and he openly confessed everything to me. He was practically living in two homes with me and the other woman who didn't mind my husband was a married man.
The affair is over now. But my nightmare now is the other woman is very upset about it. She says my husband was a very big liar who ultimately used her and dumped her. And now she is bent on making our life hell. She has shown up in our neighbourhood unannounced several times. Has called my phone severally, telling me how much of a jerk my husband is. That because of my husband, she shunned so many other viable relationships cos of his promises. That my husband only used her for sex and had the guts to abandon her after making her abort a baby for him. An abortion my husband strongly denies. He says she is using it to make me unhappy and hate him.
Frankly, I don't even know who to believe. My husband lied to me several times in the past. This woman keeps calling, crying, then at some point she will switch to screaming, threatening to deal with my husband mercilessly for causing her so much pain. One minute she is begging me to understand how she feels, the next she is swearing on Amadioha's name that curses will follow my husband and his generation. His generation which are my own children.
I am confused. How do I handle this insanity?
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